My Business suit is making me evil?
Alex asked:
I recently bought my first business suit for my new job in sales at Citibank. It feels great when i wear it. I suddenly become more confident, better looking and it is also making me feel stronger, powerful and in some way…evil.
I recently wore it and my girlfriend loved me in it…and that led into a nice sexual fantasy that ended with me finishing in her mouth…without telling her in advance (women seam to not like that – lesson learned). It’s not something i usually do or have done until now.
The somewhat cold attitude has me worried … but not as much as other things related to this whole change. For example – I also wear earrings and I enjoy it a lot. They make me feel playful and happy…but they are not very professionally looking…so now they have to go.
I recently bought my first business suit for my new job in sales at Citibank. It feels great when i wear it. I suddenly become more confident, better looking and it is also making me feel stronger, powerful and in some way…evil.
I recently wore it and my girlfriend loved me in it…and that led into a nice sexual fantasy that ended with me finishing in her mouth…without telling her in advance (women seam to not like that – lesson learned). It’s not something i usually do or have done until now.
The somewhat cold attitude has me worried … but not as much as other things related to this whole change. For example – I also wear earrings and I enjoy it a lot. They make me feel playful and happy…but they are not very professionally looking…so now they have to go.
The recent changes happened because of the suit. It gave me the power to take risks and make decisions…something so NOT me. It could be a good thing…it might also not be one…but in both cases I did it because at the time i told myself “The suit demands it”.
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It’s more to do with the fact you work in banking- it will get worse! Feric Jaggar
I was the branch manager of a bank and I never let it change me. When at work, I did have to carry on in a sophisticated way. I had to dress very nice but I worked hard to never lose myself. I had board meetings to attend with the big wigs and such. However, being me is what got me hired. They liked my honesty and that I was easily approachable. I was a breath of fresh air to them and that helped the business. Our customers trusted me with their money and would actually request me to do their business. You can be very efficient and work in a very professional way without getting to unlikeable. If you lose yourself in that suit then you will not stay happy for long because you will isolate all of the people that will become “nobodies” or “little” to you. Some may even start to resent you.
It’s okay to be confident as that will shine through in itself. Just don’t get overconfident because it may lead to your fall. Remember, you are still you no matter what you put on the outside. The inside doesn’t change. Wantmyadvice?
Sounds like control issues. Like a garage band suddenly making it famous & can’t handle all the fame of the spotlight. — Clothes DON’T make the people. — You feel a new sensation of power. Rein it in. Power corrupts and absolute power corrupts absolutly. Pride comes B4 the fall. All of these sayings are based on truths. Don’t let some fiber determine your being. Reconize that you are becoming a slave to the suit which is no power at all. — Get it into perspective. The fibers or silk you are wearing were once located where animals could walk or fly by and piss on them. Now take back control of your life. — P.S. The “advanced warnning” is a matter of courtesy. Sometimes just to position containment correctly. E-ma